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Why MKs Need Transit Lounge Now

Posted on by Sheryl O'Bryan

This is why MKs need Transit Lounge now–not every TCK experience is a good one.  Some have great experiences.  All experience loss and grief. All need Transit Lounge.

MKs Need Transit Lounge Now Because Being a TCK Can Be Painful

We see this on their applications. This year one applicant wrote, “I moved back to the US right before high school. High school was rough. I feel stuck here, and I just want to go home but my country is at war. Being a TCK feels more like a curse than a blessing right now.”

Another applicant told us that TCK life is “…just hard. It is so painful some days and it takes time to heal from so many goodbyes. Carrying the burden of all of the mini griefs and losses is painful some days.” We can’t erase that pain, but we share it.  As the old saying goes, “A grief shared is a grief halved. MKs need Transit Lounge to help reduce the load of grief they carry.

“In elementary and middle school, I went to an international school where there were few children who were of my ethnicity, and as a result, I was bullied for how I was different.” Bullies exist everywhere in the world. We can’t change that.  However, we can provide a place of belonging for all MKs/TCKs.  That’s part of what Transit Lounge does.

Isolation, another common TCK experience, can come in many forms. One MK wrote on their application, “Between being in a foreign public school or being home schooled, it made me very lonely due to either being surrounded by people who would make fun of me for my beliefs or by being surrounded by no one at all.” Every educational choice has a price tag, a lot of those are emotional rather than monetary. Transit Lounge gives MKs a place where isolation is not the norm and community exists.

In a study conducted by TCK Training on the Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE.) of TCKs, they discovered that 21% of the Adult TCKs surveyed had an ACE score of 4 or higher.  This is significant. In the general population of the United States, only 12.5% of adults scored 4 or more on the ACE scale. Higher ACE scores indicate a greater possibility for a person to have more physical, mental, and behavioral problems in adulthood.

Thankfully, ACE scores can be mitigated by Positive Childhood Experiences (PCEs).  These include being listened to, belonging to a group of peers in high school, being prioritized, and having at least two non-parent adults who are invested in you. Transit Lounge is a week long PCE celebration! This is part of the reason why MKs need Transit Lounge now.

 

Another Reason Why MKs Need Transit Lounge Now

We Belong

 

Those same MKs who struggled with belonging and grief and hardships also said the following things about why they’re thankful to be TCKs.

“I have loved being a TCK and getting to know people from unique and new backgrounds. I feel so much more capable when it comes to being independent because I’ve seen so much more of the world. I know how to adapt, how to be humble, and appreciate new experiences and cultures. The wider worldview that being a TCK has given me is something that I truly cherish and  to (and will) take with me wherever I go.”

“I learned how it feels to be excluded and to have empathy for those going through it. These experiences have both helped me learn compassion for the people who do not have friends or family and will help me serve those who have had similar or worse experiences… I feel that I have learned what…my calling will be…I have learned how Christ would want me to treat those who have less.”

If needs were duffel bags, a sense of belonging would be the biggest duffel bag most campers arrive with. Even if they belonged to a place and a friend group before they moved. A new continent, country, school, workplace, and church all at the same time creates a new need to belong. Transit Lounge helps to normalize this experience.  One of the reasons why MKs need Transit Lounge now  is so they know they are not alone in the midst of this humongous (and often monstrous!) transition.

Transit Lounge helps TCKs understand that healing can start immediately. They leave with tools, strategies, and the courage to keep at it. The also leave knowing a community exists where they belong.

Transit Lounge is more than a week of learning or a week of camp. Transit Lounge helps shift perspectives. Transit Lounge impacts lives forever and that’s why MKs need Transit Lounge now.

Jump into June

Interaction’s Jump into June campaign provides scholarships that make Transit Lounge financially feasible for most missionary families.  A scholarship for a day of camp costs$50.  A week of scholarship is $350. We need your help in providing scholarships for MKs and other TCKs who might not be able to afford Transit Lounge.  You can find more information (and give!) here. You can watch a video of our President, Bret Taylor, talk about why MKs need Transit Lounge now.  Follow the link and join in!

Jump into June 2024

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Jump into June 2024 - Transit Lounge is Here

Jump into June 2024 with us! We know May has just begun.  It seems odd that we’re going to post a lot about June in the coming weeks, but we’re looking ahead. We want you to join us–and many missionary and other expat families–on our journey to June.

June marks a pivotal time for Interaction International, as we gear up to launch our transformative summer programs tailored for Missionary Kids (MKs) and Third Culture Kids (TCKs) returning from their international lives. These programs play a vital role in easing their transition from global living to American life, fostering deep connections and spiritual growth.

We cross the southern part of the country–from Texas to Georgia–holding cross-cultural transition seminars for teen aged TCKs.  Transit Lounge is one of the ways we give direct care to American kids who are growing up globally.  Transit Lounge is actually three camps held in the course of the summer.  Our Dallas area Transit Lounge starts in June.

Will you “Jump into June” with Interaction International this year?

Engagement and Expenses Climb while Revenue Declines

We love the work we do in June. We love being in real time with TCKs–and our staff.  June is wonderful!

However, June is also the most expensive time of year for us. Our summer programs will cost over $55,000 on top of our regular expenses!  That’s a lot.

The bad news is, June is also the month where donations historically slow down.

Historic expense and income graph

Expenses up! Donations down! That’s a huge problem. But that’s where you come in.

Jump into June 2024 Provides Scholarships

This is where your invaluable support becomes instrumental. Through our annual “Jump into June” scholarship drive, you have the unique opportunity to make a tangible difference in the lives of MKs and TCKs. Your generous contributions directly fund scholarships amounting to $21,000, enabling these TCKs to participate in Transit Lounge without financial barriers.

These scholarships not only benefit missionary families by easing financial burdens but also ensure the longevity and impact of Interaction International’s mission. They empower us to continue providing essential support and guidance to TCKs, fostering their growth and resilience.

Over the upcoming weeks, we invite you to delve deeper into the significance and impact of Transit Lounge through our blog. Learn firsthand why these programs are essential for MKs/TCKs, explore testimonials from parents about their children’s transformative experiences, and uncover the secret ingredients that make Transit Lounge a resounding success year after year

If you’d like to hear Bret Taylor, Interaction International’s president provide an insightful overview of Jump into June 2024,we encourage you to  click here.  Additionally, you can seize the opportunity to sponsor a TCK for a day (or more!) by visiting our donation page. Your support during “Jump into June 2024” is a catalyst for change and growth in the lives of these remarkable young individuals. Jump into June 2024 with us. You won’t regret it for a second!

Join us this June and be part of a meaningful journey that leaves a lasting impact. Together, let’s make a difference—one scholarship at a time. Embrace the spirit of generosity and compassion by supporting Interaction International’s mission. Jump into June 2024 with us, and witness the transformative power of your contribution.

MaDonna Maurer’s Expert Mission to Amplify TCK Voices

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  1. IntroductionAmplify Among Worlds
  2. Early Life and Career
  3. Advocacy for TCKs
  4. Professional Achievements
  5. Recommendations and Podcast Preferences

 

MaDonna Maurer

Introducing MaDonna Maurer

Among Worlds magazine, a beacon for Adult Third Culture Kids (ATCKs), is set to embark on a new chapter with MaDonna Maurer at the helm as its Editor. With a rich tapestry of life experiences and a fervent dedication to amplifying TCK voices, MaDonna promises to revolutionize the publication’s narrative landscape.

MaDonna’s journey traces back to her roots in Missouri. Her thirst for cultural exploration was ignited there. In 1998, armed with a middle school education degree, she embarked on a transformative journey to China. There, amidst the bustling streets and vibrant culture, she found her calling within the walls of an international school.  She nurtured her passion for education and learned about the unique challenges faced by TCKs.

It was in China that MaDonna’s path intertwined with that of Uwe, a German MK from Taiwan. Their love story blossomed, leading to a union that would span continents and cultures. Together, they embarked on a new adventure, eventually settling in Taiwan with their three children: Marcus, Matthea, and Megan.

Despite not being a TCK herself, MaDonna’s intimate understanding of the TCK experience stems from her marriage to Uwe, parenting TKCs, and her dedication to fostering cross-cultural connections. Her personal blog, Raising TCKs, serves as a testament to her commitment to exploring the intricacies of TCK identity and upbringing.

Professional Achievements

Maurer’s prowess as a writer and editor is unparalleled. With articles featured in renowned publications such as Velvet Ashes and A Life Overseas, and as the former assistant editor of Multicultural Kids Blog, she brings a wealth of experience to her new role. Her recent graduation with a master’s in Care and Counseling further bolsters her credentials, positioning her as a trusted advocate and advisor for TCKs and their families.

As MaDonna Maurer takes the reins at Among Worlds, she envisions a future where TCK voices, including those of individuals with disabilities and those who are adopted, are welcomed to center stage. Through her unwavering dedication and boundless passion, she is set to redefine the narrative landscape for TCKs, ensuring that their stories are heard, valued, and celebrated on a global scale.

Book and Podcast Recommendations

Beyond her professional achievements, MaDonna’s voracious appetite for learning is evident in her current reading and podcast preferences. Her latest read is Girl Uprooted by Lena Lee. This underscore her commitment to understanding and empathizing with diverse cultural perspectives in the TCK universe.

In the world of podcasting, MaDonna gravitates towards *Therapy and Theology* by Proverbs 31 Ministry and *Shop Talk with Brandi and James*. These podcasts not only complement her professional expertise but also provide valuable insights into member care and cross-cultural therapy, enriching her understanding of TCK experiences and challenges.

Looking Ahead

Looking ahead, MaDonna intends to delve into the intersectionality of TCK experiences, shedding light on often overlooked perspectives within the community. She plans to collaborate with experts in fields such as psychology, sociology, and education to foster a deeper understanding of the multifaceted identities that define TCKs.

With MaDonna’s innovative leadership, Among Worlds is poised to become not only a publication but a dynamic hub for TCKs to connect, share, and thrive in their global journey of self-discovery and belonging. As MaDonna Maurer embarks on this new chapter, her vision and dedication serve as a beacon of hope for TCKs around the world. With her at the helm, Among Worlds is poised to soar to new heights, amplifying the voices and experiences of TCKs with vigor and authenticity.

Introducing Spenser Clower

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Introducing Spenser Clower

In the vibrant mosaic of personalities that make up Interaction International’s team, there’s a fresh hue adding depth and dynamism: Spenser Clower, the newly appointed Office and Events Coordinator. With roots in Brazil and a heart tuned to the needs of missionary kids (MKs) and Third Culture Kids (TCKs), Spenser brings a unique blend of experiences and passion to his role.

Spenser’s Roots and Wings

Hailing from the diverse landscapes of Brazil, Spenser’s journey to his current position has been as rich and varied as the vistas of his homeland. “My name is Spenser. You can call me Spenser, or Star Lord–some people think I look like Chris Pratt,” he says with a warm smile, adding a playful twist, ” But I like to say the ‘Brazilian’ Spencer.”

 

Having spent the formative years of his life in Brazil, Spenser embodies the cultural richness and warmth that characterize the country. From the cascading wonders of the Iguassu Falls in Parana to the sun-kissed beaches of Arraial D’Ajuda in Bahia, his memories are etched with the vibrant hues of Brazil’s natural wonders.

 

However, Spenser’s journey extends beyond national borders. “I was born in Brazil, and if furloughs count, besides FL I’ve also lived in TX, IL, and MN,” he shares, highlighting the transient nature of an MK life and the diverse experiences it brings.

 

As the current Administrative Coordinator for Compass Ministries, Spenser has honed his skills in organization and coordination, laying a strong foundation for his role with Interaction International. Clower will split his time between the two organizations, thus allowing both to benefit from his exemplary work ethic. Now, as he steps into the role of Office and Events Coordinator at Interaction, he’s eager to delve even deeper into organizing the details for programs for MKs/TCKs, providing them with a safe space to unpack their past and present.

 

“My experience volunteering as MK staff at various Transit Lounge programs has been immensely rewarding,” Spenser reflects. “Now, to be a bigger part of that process with Interaction International is truly exciting.” His enthusiasm is unmistakable.

 

Clower’s journey into the world of missionary work runs deep within his family roots. “My sister and I were born to a missionary family working in Brazil and are second-gen MKs,” he explains, tracing the threads of his heritage. “Since my dad is also an MK to Brazil, it feels like missions runs in our blood.” He fondly recalls the legacy of his grandparents, first-generation missionaries who played a pivotal role in founding a theology seminary, their impact rippling through generations.  One of his favorite roles within his family is that of being an uncle.

Funcle Spenser
Spenser and his nieces

 

In his new role at Interaction International, Spenser is poised to weave together his cultural heritage, personal experiences, and professional skills to create meaningful experiences for MKs/TCKs under the umbrella of Interaction International. Whether it’s coordinating events that foster community, providing administrative support, or simply offering a listening ear, he’s committed to serving with dedication and empathy.

Spenser Away from the Desk

But there’s more to Spenser than his professional endeavors. His adventurous spirit extends to his bucket list destinations, which include exploring the Great Barrier Reef, soaking in the history and landscape of Germany’s castles, and marveling at the natural beauty of Switzerland. “I’ve always been drawn to landscapes,” he admits with a grin.

 

Outside of work, Spenser indulges in a diverse array of hobbies. From capturing the beauty of nature through landscape photography to tending to his aquarium, his passion for the natural world is evident. He’s also an avid volleyball player and a keen gardener, constantly on the lookout for new plants to nurture and grow.

 

As Clower embarks on this new chapter with Interaction International, he carries with him the spirit of adventure, resilience, and compassion that define his journey. With his quiet but infectious enthusiasm and unwavering dedication, he’s set to leave an indelible mark on the lives of MKs/TCKs, helping them towards a brighter and more connected future.

 

In the tapestry of Interaction International’s mission, Spenser’s adds a new steadiness of heart and quiet enthusiasm, enriching the narrative with his unique perspective and unwavering commitment to fostering community and support for MKs/TCKs worldwide.

A Sure Fire Win for STAGE: Gary Nuss Returns

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STAGE Director of Membership Gary Nuss

We are happy to announce that Gary Nuss will return as the Membership Director of Interaction International’s STAGE (Student Teaching and Global Experience) program effective immediately. STAGE places student teachers from Christian colleges and universities at international schools for part of their training. Nuss, a seasoned veteran in the field, brings a wealth of experience and a passion for fostering cross-cultural understanding. He led the program at the early part of the decaded. As news of his return spreads, there is excitement among the community, anticipating a new era of innovation and growth for the STAGE program.

With Nuss’s return, the role of STAGE Director was divided in two.  The new positions are STAGE Membership Director and STAGE Placement Director.  Nuss will fill the role of Membership Director while Sarah Lingenhoel-Depew continues as STAGE Placement Director.

A Proven Leader

Gary Nuss is no stranger to the world of international education. With an impressive track record as a leader and advocate for Third Culture Kid education, his previous tenure at the helm of STAGE saw great success. Under his guidance, the program flourished through a name change and a renewed commitment to focusing on TCKs while creating lasting connections between students from diverse backgrounds and fostering a global perspective among participating student teachers.

A Vision for STAGE’s Future Growth

  A central aspect of the name change to STAGE was the desire to expand the program beyond student teaching placements to include youth ministry, business and counseling majors.  Nuss has a strong desire to provide international internships and exposure to TCKs to a broader spectrum of college students beyond the typical education majors.  Every international school has multiple positions outside of the classroom that need to be filled.  Providing internships to other disciplines helps ensure the health and well-being of international schools for years to come.

Building Bridges Across Borders

The STAGE program, under Nuss’s direction, has been a catalyst for building bridges across borders. His passion for promoting intercultural understanding  resonated with participants, creating an environment where students not only learn about other cultures but also develop lifelong friendships while providing quality education for TCKs. This commitment to fostering meaningful connections aligns seamlessly with Interaction International’s mission of being a catalyst for TCK care.  Interaction could not imagine a better, more capable person in this position.

Global Impact

Nuss’s influence extends far beyond the boundaries of the STAGE program. His global perspective and collaborative approach have positioned Interaction International as a key player in the international education landscape. As the world becomes increasingly interconnected, Nuss’s return signals a commitment to expanding the program’s reach and impact, providing students with the tools they need to thrive in and serve an interconnected global society.

Community Anticipation

The announcement of Gary Nuss’s return has generated a buzz within the Interaction International community. Alumni, current participants, and partner colleges, universities, and international schools are eager to see the direction he will take the STAGE program in its next chapter. The anticipation speaks to the trust and respect Nuss has earned throughout his career, as well as the positive impact he has had on countless lives within the TCK community.

As Gary Nuss steps back into the role of Membership Director for Interaction International’s STAGE program, the stage is set for a new chapter of innovation, collaboration, and global impact. His return signifies not only a reunion with a proven leader but also the promise of an exciting future for the program and all those touched by the positive, life altering impact of cultural exchange. The international education community eagerly awaits the unfolding of this next chapter under the guidance of a true visionary.

Meet Aletheia

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We’re so excited to let you meet Aletheia – our Communications Intern.  Alethiea volunteers her time and talents to make Interaction’s social media presence cohesive and visually pleasing.  She is doing a great job!  We’re so glad to have her on the team this summer.  Recently, she answered a few questions so you can get to know her better.

 

Without further ado, here’s your chance to meet Aletheia – our communications intern.

Meet Aletheia: The Nuts and Bolts

Who are you?  (What’s your name–at least the one we should call you.)  

My name is Aletheia Spangler, but in high school I went by Ali.

Where have you lived?  And in which place does your toothbrush currently reside?

I have lived in a bunch of different places in the United States, but also in France and Cameroon. This summer I’m staying in Arizona with my grandparents, and during the school year I am at John Brown University in Arkansas.

 

Of all the places you’ve lived, what’s a must see or do in one of them? 

I think one of my favorite things I’ve ever done was go on safari, but not in Kenya, in Cameroon. Cameroon has several national parks and a few hunting camps, especially in the northern region. My family and I went up and stayed at one of them during spring break my Senior year and I would recommend it to anyone who’s willing to bear the heat and roads. I think what made it so special was not that we saw lions and giraffes so much as that the safari was in West/Central Africa as opposed to Kenya. Nothing against Kenya, I’m just thankful I got to see the wildlife in my corner of the continent and if you can, I’d totally recommend going!

 

In a nutshell, what’s your role at Interaction International? 

I am an intern here at Interaction International and I get to help with their social media accounts. What that ends up looking like is creating, scheduling and posting about the different things Interaction is involved with.

 

Why Interaction? 

I wanted to work for Interaction because I believe in the work that they are doing, but also because I was seriously impacted by the organization through some of their programs and I want to be able to help more TCKs be reached. The staff at Interaction has proven time and time again that they know what they’re talking about and they have the ‘street cred’ to be respected by me and other TCKs I know who I’ve gone through their programs with. So when I was given the opportunity to be an intern with them, I jumped at it.

Meet Aletheia: The Life of the Mind

What book(s) are you currently reading/listening to? 

While I don’t read much nonfiction, I am reading The Girls Who Stepped Out of Line by Mari K. Eder, along with the Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan.

 

What’s one of your favorite movies?  Why do you like it so much? 

One of my all time favorite movies is The Emperor’s New Groove. It’s got amazing storytelling, it’s hilarious, and it’s good for the whole family. As an eldest of five, that’s an important quality in a movie.

:Meet Aletheia: Important People and some Bucket Lists

Who makes up your family?  Are there any TCKs in the mix? 

I am the eldest of five kids. I have two brothers and two sisters, in that order. My parents are missionaries in Cameroon. My dad is a helicopter pilot and my mom is a mechanic. Me and my siblings are all TCKs, but my parents are not.

 

Who have been the most influential people in your life? Who speaks into you?

I think the most influential people in my life have been my mother and several of her friends, both stateside and on the field. I have learned so much from all of them about life, parenting, people, being christian women who are strong in their faith and on fire for God in so many different positions with so many different giftings.

I really appreciate all of them for their wisdom, encouragement and occasional rebukes over the years, both directed at me and what I have learned from listening to them.

 

What are three bucket list places for you to visit? 

I would love to visit Thailand with one of my friends, I would also love to go to Switzerland and Italy.

 

What are three bucket list experiences you would like to have?

I would love to publish my own novel some day, as well as get my private pilot’s license (probably for small planes, not helicopters, though, sorry Dad!) and go on a roadtrip with my siblings.

 

Which person from the Bible, other than any part of the Trinity, would you like to sit with and have a conversation?  What would you like them to talk about? 

I would love to sit and have a conversation with Ruth, Mary (Jesus’s mother) or Mary Magdalene. I would want to chat with them about their faith, and what it was like for them living cross-culturally in their respective times.

 

What do you want everyone who reads this to know about you? 

I am a huge nerd and I also enjoy hanging out with other people who are big nerds and listening to them talk about whatever they’re passionate about. I’m a strong believer in the idea that everyone is a nerd about something, be it doctors chatting about their cases, pilots discussing aircraft, or college students talking about movies.

The Most Important Question

 Marvel or DC?  Favorite character?  Why? 

Marvel all the way. One of my favorite characters from Marvel is Peggy Carter, because she is a very strong and independent woman while still being classy. In some ways she reminds me of my mom and other women who I deeply respect and want to be like when I grow up.

And now you can count yourself among the privileged because you got to meet Aletheia – our Communications Intern!  Bret and Sheryl first met Aletheia during the pandemic on TCK Connect.  Last year we had the privilege of getting to meet her in person at Transit Lounge.  We are thankful she could join our team this summer.

 

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