Books for Children

Listed below are books that parents can use to help their children process their experiences as Third Culture Kids.

This list of books is split by topic, or you can sort by age using the buttons below.

Books on Moving and Goodbyes

Big Ernie's New Home: A Story for Children Who Are Moving by Teresa Martin & Whitney Martin (Magination Press, 2006) ISBN: 1591473837

Big Ernie’s New Home gently affirms the normal sadness, anger, and anxiety that young children feel after a move. And as Big Ernie gradually discovers...

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A New Home by Tania de Regil (Candlewick, 2019) ISBN: 1536201936

In a cleverly combined voice — accompanied by wonderfully detailed illustrations depicting parallel urban scenes — a young boy conveys his fears about moving from...

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Good-bye, House by Robin Ballard (New York: Greenwillow Books, 1994) ISBN: 0-688-12526-3

In this book, a girl says good-bye to each room in her house and remembers special events there. This book could be used to help children implement RAFT. picture book

When Africa Was Home by Karen L. Williams (New York: Orchard Books, 1991) ISBN: 0-531-05925-1

A preschooler’s perspective on reentry. Returning to New York when his father’s job finishes, he longs for the familiar ways of living in Africa. He...

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The Lost and Found House by Michael Cadnum (New York: Penguin, 1997) ISBN: 0-670-84994-0

A young boy moves out of his old house and into a new one far away. He walks through the empty rooms saying good-bye. As...

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Far from Home: A Story of Loss, Refuge, and Hope by Sarah Parker R ubio (Tyndale Kids, 2019) ISBN: 1496436733

Very suddenly, a young boy knows that what he fears has come to pass: he and his family must begin their long journey away from...

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A Fish out of Water by Hannah Flatman (Independently published, 2022) ISBN: 979-8401803931

Little Bia Fish struggles to make a new place home. What will help her to transition smoothly and become resilient? A Christian story for parents...

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The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson (Nancy Paulsen Books, 2018) ISBN: 0399246533

There are many reasons to feel different. Maybe it's how you look or talk, or where you're from; maybe it's what you eat, or something...

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It Will be Okay: Trusting God Through Fear and Change by Lysa TerKeurst (Tommy Nelson, 2014) ISBN: 140032419X

Little Seed and Little Fox are facing big changes and brand-new circumstances--and they don't like it one bit! Through this unlikely friendship, children will discover...

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Gibberish by Young Vo (Levine Querido, 2022) ISBN: 1646141105

t’s Dat’s first day of school in a new country! Dat and his Mah made a long journey to get here, and Dat doesn’t know...

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In-Between Places by Alex Killian (Chronicle Books, 2025) ISBN: 145217279X

Sometimes you find yourself in an in-between place. A place that is neither here nor there. The beautiful book encourage readers to meet new experiences...

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When We Called Myanmar Home by Julie Jean Francis (Bringing His Word to Life, 2023) ISBN: 979-8986674025

The children of Julie Jean Francis love their life in Southeast Asia. They wake with the sun and eat fried rice for breakfast. They buy...

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Ira Says Goodbye by Bernard Weber (Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 1988) ISBN: 0-395-48315-8

Ira’s best friend is moving. Follow Ira’s struggle with his friend who idealizes the new location. The story illustrates by negative example how not to...

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Amber Brown is Not a Crayon by Paula Danziger (New York: Scholastic, Inc., 1994) ISBN: 0-590-45899-X

This book focuses on the feeling of children who are left behind in a move. It ties into the reconciliation aspect of RAFT. Third-grade Amber’s...

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See Ya Later, Allie Rader by Emily Steele Jackson (Independently published, 2021) ISBN: 979-8719112138

Allie Rader can’t wait to spend seventh grade in Bangkok, Thailand. She’s excited to explore the wonders of a new country even though it means...

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Alexander Who's Not (Do You Hea by Judith Viorst (New York: Atheneum, 1995) ISBN: 0-689-82089-5

His family is moving, but Alexander has decided he’s not going. He investigates other living arrangements while at the same time saying goodbye to people,...

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Grandfather's Journey by Allen Say (Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 1993) ISBN: 0-395-57035-2

This Caldecott Award-Winning book is the story of the author’s grandfather who longed to return to his homeland after living for years in San Francisco....

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GO!: My personal guide and diary before, during and after moving abroad by Maria Kofod Techow, Emilie Frijs Due, & Bente Skovby Burke (Summertime Publishing, 2022) ISBN: 1915264006

By writing, drawing, collecting memories and sharing them with others, they can create their own special story about their lives before, during and after their...

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Peanut Butter Friends in a Chop Suey World by Deb Brammer (JourneyForth, 2005) ISBN: 0890847517

Sixth-grade Amy arrives in Taiwan and begins school at the international Christian school. She wants to serve Jesus and make friends with Chinese children, but...

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Faith on the Move: A Devotional for MK/TCK Teens in Cross-Cultural Transition by Interaction International (Independently published) ISBN: 979-8425166494

Written specifically for teens who are returning to their passport culture (aka, where their parents are from), this devotional covers a number of important topics...

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Hidden in My Heart: A Tck's Journey Through Cultural Transition by Taylor Murray (Bottomline Media, 2013) ISBN: 0985219254

The novelty of life overseas wore off, and Taylor became overwhelmed with frustration, loneliness and the sorrow of leaving everything she knew-the States, her home,...

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Books on Third Culture Kid (TCK) Issues, Identity, and Belonging

Swirly by Sarah Saunders (Review & Herald Pub Assn, 2012) ISBN: 0828026815

Lila, born in the Blue Country and having lived in the Yellow Country, then the Red, has swirls of all of those colors in her...

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What Are the Pieces to Your Puzzle? by Amelia Sevilla Martín (Independently published, 2021) ISBN: 979-8548328212

As the world nurtures more global connections – international living, mixed marriages and inclusive school playgrounds are becoming increasingly common. Our children are growing into...

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My Tower is Tumbling!: A Faith-Based Story to Help Children Process Grief and Loss by Marci Renée (The Cultural Story-Weaver, 2023) ISBN: 1956242163

Pierre's rock tower is getting taller and taller and heavier and heavier each day! As he travels around the world, Pierre experiences some difficult things...

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My Tower is Tumbling!: A Conversation Story to Help Children Process Grief and Loss by Marci Renée (The Cultural Story-Weaver, 2023) ISBN: 1956242236

Pierre's rock tower is getting taller and taller and heavier and heavier each day! As he travels around the world, Pierre experiences some difficult things...

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The Girl of Many Colors by Marci Renée ( The Cultural Story-Weaver, 2023) ISBN: 1956242171

Sophia was born with two different colors. As she travels the globe, the bright and beautiful colors of the world become a part of her...

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The Boy of Many Colors by Marci Renée (The Cultural Story-Weaver, 2021) ISBN: 1736725335

The Boy of Many Colors, similar to The Girl of Many Colors, will leave children and adults ready and excited to explore the world, collect...

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Grandfather's Journey by Allen Say (Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 1993) ISBN: 0-395-57035-2

This Caldecott Award-Winning book is the story of the author’s grandfather who longed to return to his homeland after living for years in San Francisco. It compliments Say’s other book Tea with Milk.

Letters Never Sent, a global nomad's journey from hurt to healing by Ruth E Van Reken (Summertime Publishing, 2012) ISBN: 1904881483

As an Adult Third Culture Kid (ATCK), Ruth E. Van Reken began journaling to make sense of the often-overlooked struggles of growing up as a...

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Arrivals, Departures and the Adventures In-Between by Christopher O'Shaughnessy (Summertime Publishing, 2014) ISBN: 1909193720

If your story involves growing up among different cultures - either moving between them or having them move around you - then read this book....

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Letters Now Sent: A Collection of Letters from the Globally Mobile by Megan C. Norton-Newbanks (Belonging Beyond Borders, LLC, 2025) ISBN: 979-8987211120

Inspired by Ruth E. Van Reken’s Letters Never Sent, this heartfelt collection brings together letters from those who have lived between cultures—stories rich with both...

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"I Have to Be Perfect": (And Other Parsonage Heresies) by Timothy L. Sanford M.A. (CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform, 2015) ISBN: 1517004284

Being the child of parents in ministry brings both beauty and challenge. Tim Sanford, himself a missionary kid, ordained minister, and licensed professional counselor, unpacks...

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The Means that Make Us Strangers by Christine Kindberg (Independently published, 2019) ISBN: 1797761358

Adelaide has lived her whole life in rural Ethiopia as the white American daughter of an anthropologist. Then her family moves to South Carolina, in...

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Books on Difficult Feelings and Healing

What Am I Feeling? by Josh Straub & Christi Straub (B&H Kids, 2019) ISBN: 978-1535941075

After several unchecked feelings threaten to ruin the big day, Sam and his friends start to learn how to give each emotion a name and...

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It Will be Okay: Trusting God Through Fear and Change by Lysa TerKeurst (Tommy Nelson, 2014) ISBN: 140032419X

Little Seed and Little Fox are facing big changes and brand-new circumstances--and they don't like it one bit! Through this unlikely friendship, children will discover...

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The Boy with Big, Big Feelings by Britney Winn Lee (Beaming Books, 2019) ISBN: 150645450X

An instant classic in the world of Social-Emotional Learning, this bestselling picture book tells the story of one little boy with some big, big emotions...

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Why Do I Feel So Sad?: A Grief Book for Children by Tracy Lambert LPC (Callisto Kids, 2020) ISBN: 1646117131

Designed to help young children understand their own grief, the examples are rooted in real life, exploring the truth of loss and change, while remaining...

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What Feelings Do When No One’s Looking by Tina Oziewicz (Elsewhere Editions, 2022) ISBN: 1953861288

The illustrations of each emotions–happy ones and difficult ones–help readers understand and name their emotions and even feel more comfortable to interact and cope with...

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What Does Grief Feel Like? by Korie Leigh & Mike Malbrough (Free Spirit Publishing, 2023) ISBN: 1631987062

Gentle and reassuring, "What Does Grief Feel Like?" shares the many ways people can grieve when a loved one dies and validates children’s unique grief...

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A Terrible Thing Happened: A Story for Children Who Have Witnessed Violence or Trauma by Margaret M. Holmes & Cary Pillo (Magination Press ― American Psychological Association, 2020) ISBN: 1557987017

This gently told and tenderly illustrated story is for children who have witnessed any kind of violent or traumatic episode, including physical abuse, school or...

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Crying is Like the Rain: A Story of Mindfulness and Feelings by Heather Hawk Feinberg (Tilbury House Publishers, 2020) ISBN: 0884487237

explore sadness, loneliness, fear, frustration, anger and more, through gentle metaphor. Their journey examines our tears revealing how they begin, why they happen, and what...

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Breathing Makes It Better: A Book for Sad Days, Mad Days, Glad Days, and All the Feelings In-Between by Christopher Willard & Wendy O'Leary (Bala Kids, 2019) ISBN: 1611804698

Read aloud and breathe along with this sweet story teaching children how to notice and navigate powerful emotions like anger, fear, sadness, confusion, anxiety, and...

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My Tower is Tumbling!: A Faith-Based Story to Help Children Process Grief and Loss by Marci Renée (The Cultural Story-Weaver, 2023) ISBN: 1956242163

Pierre's rock tower is getting taller and taller and heavier and heavier each day! As he travels around the world, Pierre experiences some difficult things...

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My Tower is Tumbling!: A Conversation Story to Help Children Process Grief and Loss by Marci Renée (The Cultural Story-Weaver, 2023) ISBN: 1956242236

Pierre's rock tower is getting taller and taller and heavier and heavier each day! As he travels around the world, Pierre experiences some difficult things...

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Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst (New York: Atheneum, 1972) ISBN: 0-689-71173-5

Like many TCKs, Alexander has a day in which everything goes wrong. His solution is to move to another country. This book can be used to help TCKs develop coping strategies.

Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss by Pat Schwiebert & Chuck DeKlyen (Grief Watch, 2005) ISBN: 0961519762

This book uses a creative twist to validate grief. You can leave it on the coffee table for your family and others to pick it...

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Homesick: My Own Story by Jean Fritz (New York: Yearling, 1982) ISBN: 0-440-43683-4

This Newbery Award winning book is a true story. The author recounts her homesickness for America when she lives in China and her longing for...

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It Won't Ever Be the Same: A Teen's Guide to Grief and Grieving by Korie Leigh, Ph.D. (Free Spirit Publishing, 2024) ISBN: 979-8885543842

Whether teens are in the midst of their first grief experience or have experienced grief before, It Won't Ever Be the Same is designed to...

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"I Have to Be Perfect": (And Other Parsonage Heresies) by Timothy L. Sanford M.A. (CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform, 2015) ISBN: 1517004284

Being the child of parents in ministry brings both beauty and challenge. Tim Sanford, himself a missionary kid, ordained minister, and licensed professional counselor, unpacks...

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Letters Never Sent, a global nomad's journey from hurt to healing by Ruth E Van Reken (Summertime Publishing, 2012) ISBN: 1904881483

As an Adult Third Culture Kid (ATCK), Ruth E. Van Reken began journaling to make sense of the often-overlooked struggles of growing up as a...

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Letters Now Sent: A Collection of Letters from the Globally Mobile by Megan C. Norton-Newbanks (Belonging Beyond Borders, LLC, 2025) ISBN: 979-8987211120

Inspired by Ruth E. Van Reken’s Letters Never Sent, this heartfelt collection brings together letters from those who have lived between cultures—stories rich with both...

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